A record number of women are choosing not to become mothers. With that choice comes well-meaning, but un-asked for comments. Here are some examples of things you shouldn't say to women who choose to not have children.

1. You'll change your mind
2. It's just a phase
3. My friend also said she didn't want kids but she's a happy mom of six now

4. Life doesn't start until you've had children
5. You'll regret it when it's too late
6. Do you hate kids?
7. Not having kids is selfish

Bottom line: They're many reasons why a woman might not want to have kids and all of them are her business and totally valid.